How can I make sure the OBGYN I am going to is gender inclusive?
The best way to start is by asking any gender non-conforming people in your network about gender-inclusive OBGYNs and their OBGYN experiences. Another great option is to visit an LGBTQ+ center in your city and asking them for reccomendations. When all else fails you can always check online and read the reviews of all your local OBGYNS.
For more information, check out our Gender Inclusivity Period Talk guide, made in partnership with Schuyler Bailar!
If you currently have a gynecologist with whom you feel comfortable, coming out to them is an important step to being healthy. Being open about your sexual orientation, sexual behavior and gender identity means that your provider will be able to offer care that is personalized and relevant to you. Bring a friend for support if you want to. Tell your healthcare provider your pronouns and the names you prefer that they use for your body parts. They should respect this and start to use your preferred terms.
If your gynecologist is not understanding, or your don’t feel comfortable with them, find a new one — there are several ways to find a provider with whom you connect. To start, ask people you trust for recommendations. Friends, local support organizations and online forums are all good sources for this information. You might want to ask another healthcare provider with whom you had a good experience.
